When I was 54 ten years ago I started a relationship with another woman.I have kept it quite from my wife.You don't go into these things wanting to hurt anyone.But one makes me fell young and alive and the other makes me feel like death warmed over.I would have married her years ago if she'd leave her husband but no.It goes on.Sure there were times I wanted to quit and say the hell with it.But when were together its like magic and I can't get enough of her in my life.Right or wrong she makes me feel alive.You want to live along time with her just to be together.