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Wolfdog 11-08-2012 12:44 PM

For Lah
Sending Love and Light for Tynzy and for you as well dear Lah. Believing she can heal with your patience and caring spirit. Hopefully, you can help her even more by getting her into a regular therapy program and also group therapy.
Sometimes it is a blessing for these children to meet others with similiar stories and hear of their lives first-hand. Social Services can often reccommend these programs or help you find the right child therapist for her. School councilors often know good ones as well.

Understanding that she will try your patience at every turn,and that staying on an even keel and not lashing out is difficult.... as she will constantly be testing you. It is very possible to rebuild her bond of trust in adults but, would be an arduous process for you to help her to to heal only by yourself....as much as you would like to believe this.
Sending Healing Energy for you both with much, much, Love,

Lah 11-09-2012 11:47 AM

Yeah!!! She doesn't like therapy foster care forced her to do it so she is so against it now because it reminds her if foster care she us very limited iq of 70

Wolfdog 11-09-2012 07:05 PM

For Lah
Dear Lah,

So sorry to learn of this. If you have been able to forge a bond of trust with her despite her IQ.....another idea may be for you to attend therapy with her and help her to feel safe and to help disassociate her with the former uncomfortable experience. It may also enable you to forge a closer heart bond as her most trusted adult. And the therapist may be of great help for you as well in coping with this complicated and heart rending experience.

Sometimes it is hard to realize that we can't do it all by ourselves. And, hopefully...you can give yourself a little "time off", too. It may help her also to have another trusted adult in her life as well. Hope you will think about this.
I care. And, I hope I have not in any way offended you. That was not my intention. When these karmas come up...it is never easy...as reality can be very painful. Stay strong.

Lah 11-10-2012 09:02 AM

The best thing is sending light it goes beyond the limited mind!!! Thanks

Kata0 11-11-2012 05:45 PM

Could she perhaps be slightly autistic? Or maybe a star child unable to process information as we do?

Lah 11-12-2012 08:29 PM

Maybe!!!! Not autistic though! She has oppositional defiance disorder she has add ADHD and she is border line mentally retarded her birth mother used meth while she was pregnant with her!! Keep sending her light I notice a shift today

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